At the end of every month I\u2019d ask Larry if he wanted to settle up. I was recording every client, every ticket, every time I collected, every time I didn\u2019t, setting aside what I was owed from what I had to return to Larry in envelopes of cash tucked into my bookshelf. But he always just texted back: Let\u2019s do it next month. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shall we compare accounts anyway? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Lauren\u2026 don\u2019t worry about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oh right, I thought, don\u2019t be the crass American bringing up money all the time. You\u2019re \u201camici\u201d after all and to imply that you were working for money (radical concept!) was so\u2026so\u2026 oh let\u2019s just not, shall we. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Before every tour I hated myself for having thought I could do this job. I furiously scrolled through dates and names on my phone trying to memorize last details \u2013 having always been a study nerd I relied on the accruement of information as if it were a shield against the deep insecurity I felt speaking in front of people\u2026 or even TO people for that matter. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
My introverted tendencies were screaming at me to run and hide but the more tours I did something was happening that reminded me of the cross country racing I did all through high school and university. You train and you prepare and the big race comes and you\u2019re nervous and you feel you\u2019re not ready but you\u2019re on the starting line and you only have two choices: give it your best shot or turn around and dash off into the hills, never to be seen again. Not really a choice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The problem is actually getting yourself to the starting line and not giving up beforehand during the training. But when you do one step at a time you distract yourself from the fear of \u201cdoing that thing\u201d until suddenly it\u2019s in front of you and you know you just have to hold your breath and leap. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I had three things helping me get to the starting line: First, I loved studying the history and putting together the puzzle pieces of characters, art techniques, social movements and architectural terms. Second, I definitely didn\u2019t love the idea of making almost no money doing the job I didn\u2019t want to be doing anyway (English teaching). Thirdly: I needed this job for the usual things you need jobs for: Rent. Food. That kinda stuff. After three years in Italy I had no savings whatsoever, all my student loans on hold and the knowledge that come June I\u2019d have no income\u2026 again. Could I talk in front of people in an entertaining way? No time to think about that, just get back to studying the Papacy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Then I\u2019d be there on the starting line, standing in front of a couple and they\u2019d be staring at me and I\u2019d have to just do something, anything, knowing there was no turning back or room for self doubt. It\u2019s becomes a kind of meditation. I relax when I\u2019m guiding because I literally can\u2019t think about anything else. From making sure that Grandma doesn\u2019t faint from heatstroke, to entertaining the kids with before and after pictures of the Roman Forum to telling the teenager where to shop to explaining the difference between Renaissance and Baroque architecture, your personal fears simply don\u2019t have room to muck around with your confidence. And when you say goodbye at the end of a tour, the feeling of triumph is complete, of knowing that I just did one of the hardest things for me to do. For me! There are harder things. There are always harder things. But for me\u2026 this was hard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For the first time in Rome, I felt I was really learning the city itself and its layers through time. I was becoming familiar to people in caffes who greeted me when I entered like I was a long lost friend. Amicizia! I was meeting people from around the world who would say, thank you so much for making our afternoon special. It was incredibly stressful and totally magnificent. I felt I was growing exponentially and I got to talk about incredible historical moments every day. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
There was just one thing that was starting to worry me. The looks. Walking through the looming arches of the Colosseum or in front of the Spanish steps I noticed odd looks thrown my way by other guides. The ones that had the license, hanging proudly from their necks. They weren\u2019t looks so much as they were glares. One shook her head. Another muttered something under her breath as she passed me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
One day, about an hour into what was becoming a really fun tour of the city center with a small group, we were standing in the Piazza di Pietra in front of the Temple of Hadrian looking at how the pitted marble columns of an ancient temple had been enveloped by a more modern buildings, someone asked me, \u201cHow old is this temple again?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cIt\u2019s from the middle of the second century,\u201d I responded, taking a breath to go on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cExcuse me,\u201d said an unfamiliar voice to my left. We all turned, slightly startled at the proximity of the voice that appeared to belong to a lank haired woman in a long brown coat. The piazza was empty so where she\u2019d materialized from was anyone\u2019s guess. \u201cIt\u2019s actually from the year 145,\u201d she said, positively reeking with condescension. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I started to respond with, \u201cDoesn\u2019t that seem like the middle of the second century?\u201d but she cut me off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cYou would know that,\u201d she said, seething, \u201cif you were a REAL guide.\u201d She then turned to the little group and told them they shouldn\u2019t pay me because I didn\u2019t have the license.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
All I could think to do was chirp, \u201cLet\u2019s go to the Pantheon!\u201d and we escaped (I think the clients were more creeped out than I was) while she hissed, \u201cI\u2019m calling the police.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I realized I had to get serious about taking this exam before I was \u201cdisappeared\u201d by vengeful competitors but the more questions I asked of the other guides who worked for Larry, the more hopeless the situation looked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This is what I gathered: There are no regular exams. They come around once in a blue moon. It\u2019s all in Italian, naturally, and nobody passes. People fail by one point or two points. Sometimes even half a point. The questions are about obscure things that can often be answered in multiple ways so they can decide who passes or not. Only Italians pass. No, anyone can pass if you\u2019re good enough! It\u2019s fair but very hard. No, it\u2019s completely corrupt and people pay for the answers. You can get one if you have an art history degree. No that was true in the past, they don\u2019t do that anymore. The last one was a few years ago and there\u2019s no news about a future one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ok\u2026 great. About as clear as the Tiber river during the age of Julius Caesar when it was basically an open sewer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I had already crossed the starting line so it was time to adapt. I learned not to look like a guide which was difficult since you want to convey authority but not to be obvious to those who have it out for you. No pointing. Stand beside people and tell them verbally, look to the left of the window over there. Small groups, under 6 if possible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I waited for news of an exam but that whole summer there was none. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I made it to the end of the summer. The tours were dwindling and the English lessons were coming back in. Barely time for a breather between one job and the other but finally, for the first time, I had enough money saved from the summer to cover the rent of the following month. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
And finally I had my accounting meeting with Larry to settle up an entire summers worth of tours. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I sat down with him in the hotel restaurant off of Piazza Navona. There were white tablecloths and he knew everyone in the place. It was nice. Refined. Amicizia. He put on his glasses to indicate we would begin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cYou had a good summer? You enjoyed working for me?\u201d He spoke in a low, soft voice that simultaneously created a shroud of intimacy around your table and an inferiority complex as you had to lean in to hear him. It was a voice that said, you come to me, I don\u2019t go to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We opened our notebooks and found that, che sorpresa!, many of those pesky little numbers simply didn\u2019t match. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The problem was in the tickets. Sometimes clients were meant to pay me a tour price and a ticket price. Sometimes the ticket fees were included in the tour price. Sometimes they paid for the tour with the concierge but paid me for the tickets. Sometimes they paid the concierge for everything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There were all these tours I apparently was supposed to collect ticket money for, but I hadn\u2019t. \u201cI\u2019m afraid you owe me more than you thought,\u201d he said. It was hundreds more euros. It was more than rent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cI don\u2019t see how that can be possible.\u201d I said, starting to panic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cThat was your mistake.\u201d He placed his glasses on his ledger and leaned back in his chair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I hesitated. I wanted to say sorry sorry sorry, I ruined everything. I did it all wrong. What can we do? Can you forgive me? But looking at him across that white tablecloth, I felt exhausted. I\u2019d quite simply been through too much bullshit. I saw the darker sides of the whole country staring at me through his beady little eyes demanding always more, always another unpleasant little surprise, and I couldn\u2019t be the person that said sorry for something I knew wasn\u2019t my fault. After all, if you\u2019ve seen The Dolce Vita you\u2019ll know there\u2019s nothing sweet about it. I didn\u2019t remember what the messages said but I knew I wasn\u2019t stupid enough to make a mistake over and over again if the wording had been clear. I was a lit major. One thing I CAN do is read. I took a deep breath and I broke the most important rule and crushed our amicizia charade. \u201cLet\u2019s check the messages,\u201d I said. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cWe can check them but Lauren, honestly,\u201d his lips curled as if he was explaining something to a child, \u201cNo other guides have ever made this mistake before. Maybe it\u2019s just your first summer working for me and you were confused and unfortunately you have to pay for that.\u201d Pap\u00e0 will forgive you\u2026if you pay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cLet\u2019s check them.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cWe can if you want.\u201d He didn\u2019t move. The smile was gone. I could tell this was my last chance to back down. If we checked the messages, whatever they said wouldn\u2019t matter, I\u2019d be absolutely out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
My hands shook as they had on that first tour but I picked up my phone and scrolled to the messages about the days in question, holding the screen so we could both see it if we leaned in, holding my breath. In one message after the next, it was clear who had made the mistake. And it wasn\u2019t me. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cI\u2019m not paying,\u201d I said. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
His scowl was complete. \u201cThen I guess this meeting is over.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I gathered my accounting pages. He started whispering to one of the waiters. Secrets between amici. I no longer existed. I walked outside of that cool, white room onto the cobblestone street, into the heat of Piazza Navona, and burst into tears. I\u2019d lost the job. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
But I\u2019d won.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Onward.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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